Tag: 4/5- Great Book

by Barry Hines

This is the book I long wanted to read, fictional story by the brother of Robert Hines, with the details of hawking closely based on what the younger brother had experienced as a boy. It was a bit slow for me to get into (in spite of being a relatively slim book) but then some scenes started to really get me with the emotions, and when the passages describing Billy’s work with the kestrel appeared, I knew I would hold onto this book forever. I can well see why it’s considered a classic in the UK.

Story is about Billy Casper, a boy growing up in poverty in a mining town. His mother is hardly ever home, his older brother works in the pit -and bullies him when he isn’t down there- his father is an unknown entity, having disappeared early in his life. Billy isn’t a bad kid at heart, but he is thought of as a troublemaker, messing around as kids always do. Smaller than the others (I was surprised when finally learned from one small comment dropped by an adult that he was fifteen!) he gets picked on at school- a place that sounds dull and tedious, with exasperated teachers that often thump (literally) the kids. At home there’s hardly ever enough to eat, and it’s often cold and uncomfortable. But there’s one part of Billy’s life that shines and brings out a softer side of his nature- being out tramping around in the wild overgrown places on the edges of town, then later caring for and working with a kestrel fledgling that he steals from a nest. He teaches himself from a book, how to train and fly it to a lure. When the class has to share a real-life story, he tells about his hawk, and for once everyone listens in fascination. One of his teachers starts to take a particular interest in what he’s doing with the hawk. But sadly, when he’s interviewed for job possibilities, he never brings up his interest in and skills with animals- even though from some other dropped comments it’s apparent that long before the hawk he raised fox kits, magpies, crows, and more. He simply thinks nobody would value that at all. Two parts of this book really got to me emotionally- one where another kid in class tells about an incident collecting tadpoles with a friend, made me laugh so hard and then I had to read it aloud all over again to my twelve-year-old (who thought it was great). The other passage was about when Billy had to write his own short fiction for an assignment- a “tall tale”- some wild imaginative fantasy. He wrote simply about waking up in a warm house, having plenty of good food to eat, and a loving family around him. It practically made me cry. The ending is terribly sad too, when Billy’s rocky relationship with his older brother takes a disastrous turn- he fails to do something his brother asked, loosing him some money as a result, and the older brother strikes out at the only thing he knows Billy really cares about. The little falcon.

I’m so glad I read this. And also glad that I saw the closely related film not that long ago. For once I appreciated that the film already put images in my head- it was made in the same town where the author and his brother lived- and it was so faithfully depicted, following the story very closely (except I don’t remember the tadpole scene being in the film. Disappointing!) However I kind of wish I’d read the book first, as I recall struggling to understand and follow the dialog when I watched the film. I’m sure there were plenty of scenes where I really didn’t know what anybody said just vaguely followed what was happening- whereas in the book it was very clear, even with a lot of local vernacular that I just skipped over, reading in context. (When I re-read this one someday -which I’m sure I will- I want to note down all those unknown terms and look them up to see if my guesses were correct).

In tone and depiction, something about this book reminded me of Stephen Hero, by James Joyce. Which I haven’t read in so long it isn’t even on this blog- but now I want to again, to see where that glimmer of familiarity came from.

 

Rating: 4/5
153 pages, 1968

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Our Enduring Fascination with the Most Mysterious Creature in the Natural World

by Patrik Svensson

The more I read about eels, the more fascinated I am. This book was published almost a decade after Eels by James Prosek, and yet it doesn’t add a whole lot to the eel’s story. Not to say there isn’t a lot of different information, and what was familiar was presented from different angles, so I found it intriguing all over again (plus I had forgotten plenty of details in the meantime). But in the end, the unanswered questions still remain. The eel’s birthplace remains at most a highly probably best guess, still nobody has seen two eels mating, or found adult sexually mature eels in the Sargasso Sea. If I read about this in the first book I had forgotten: that young Sigmund Freud spent a month dissecting hundreds of eels in search of one that had reproductive organs (eels don’t develop sexual organs until they’re on their final journey to the sea to mate). I read (probably again) about the man who tracked down the eels’ breeding ground, by following the leaflike eel larvae searching for smaller and smaller ones until he must be near their birthplace. Twenty years of searching. I read about how eels were among the foods that saved early colonists in New England from starving (even though nobody eats eel for Thanksgiving, they should!) About an eel that a kid tossed down a well, and apparently it survived there for a hundred and fifty years, alone in the dark, eating the occasional thing that fell in. Eels can have a very long lifespan. And what’s crazy is that they make their journey back to the sea, undergoing a final metamorphosis into an adult eel, at anywhere from four or five years to thirty, fifty, eighty . . . or more. So two eels that meet in the Sargasso Sea could be “all in the same developmental phase, the same relative age, if you will, and yet the oldest seven times older than the youngest.” There’s stories of eels caught in their young stages and kept in captivity, that stayed in that phase for years and years, never developing further.

There’s a lot of material in this book quoted from Rachel Carson’s Under the Sea Wind, which has a lengthy section about the life of an eel. And a passage reproduced and examined at length, from The Tin Drum by Gunter Grass, where the main character and his parents observed a man pull a dead horse’s head out of the water and extract eels from it. I found this passage very disturbing back then and disturbing now all over again! (In fact, a lot of that book was disturbing. It’s one I read in high school, the words captivated me and I was proud of reading a real dorstopper, but a lot of things in that book were rather repulsive, it’s one I kind of regret reading at all. However a lot of it also went way over my head, so not sure I can judge it fairly).

This book also has a lot of personal narrative, where the author describes fishing for eels with his father as a young boy, how their methods changed over the decades, and different details surrounding that. It was lovely, even though of course the eels die and get eaten. And the way they acquired a massive amount of worms to make a special kind of bait ball, was rather shocking!

Plus lots more facts and interesting stories and tidbits about the life and mystery of eels, of course. At the end, as is sadly the case with many books about wild animals that I read, is a chapter full of concern for indications that eel numbers are falling drastically, and it is likely this animal will go extinct before we even have understood it completely.

Borrowed from the public library.

Rating: 4/5
241 pages, 2019

Living with Caribou

by Seth Kantner

The author grew up in Alaska, where his family (white folks) lived as the Natives did, in a sod igloo on the tundra, hunting and gathering food each year. Very close to the land. As he got older, his brother decided to leave for college, and when Katner had his own children, his daughter likewise left for the Lower 48. But he stayed in his father’s footsteps, only wanting to be an expert hunter, to know the animals and landscape more closely, to be there. The book varies widely in its focus: some chapters are about his family history, why and how they lived the way they did, the difficulties and sense of fulfillment in it. Other chapters are about the land, the history of people in Alaska, how arrival of Outsiders changed things, how wildlife management and land ownership has changed things, and most of all how climate shifts have changed and affected everything. But mostly it’s about the caribou. How much they depend on this one animal. Why it is so valuable to people living a subsistence lifestyle. Possible causes between a population crash in the past (which sounded like fable to Katner when older people told him about it in his youth), the abundance and growth he knew most of his life, and the troublesome reduction in numbers more recently. As much as this man loves the wildlife and hunting, he is honest about the choices he’s had to make to maintain it. Why they stopped using dog teams for the most part, and switched to machines. How thrilled he was as a teenager to finally own a modern (semi-automatic) rifle that had far more accuracy and ease of use than any weapon he’d had in the past. This was so effective in “harvesting” animals that most people overdid it. Or got careless. Leaving wounded caribou, or spoiling the meat with bad shots. How shameful that was, and yet he found himself struggling to resist the urge to continue, to just get another and another. The passage describing this impulse to keep killing and how he fought it off, was very sobering. It reminds me of reading accounts when a predator got into a pen of sheep, or a fox into a henhouse, how rampantly they slaughter- because the prey can’t flee, and suddenly it is so easy . . . 

There are stories in here of people he knew growing up, and the wisdom they shared. Interesting characters. Stories of how villages changed and grew with influx of new technologies and connections to Outside. Accounts of government and politics likewise getting involved, affecting the lives of people and animals too. The historical parts interested me more than I first expected them to. I didn’t know, for example, that reindeer were introduced from other parts of the world, when caribou scarcity threatened the lives of Natives decades ago. Or how different they are now, in spite of actually being the same species. Since this is a book about a hunter, there is a lot on how the animals are butchered and their bodies used, in plenty of detail- which might put off some readers.

I recall now having read Caribou and the Barren-Lands, but the details now unclear. I wish I’d read these books alongside each other.

Borrowed from the public library.

Rating: 4/5
320 pages, 2021

by Colleen Af Venable

This book is more complex that you might think at first glance. I almost didn’t read it. I had thumbed through it once before, and something about one of the characters’ crass remarks about religion put me off (even though I’m not a religious person anymore). However my kid just finished it and started telling me how good it was and I had to stop them from giving me spoilers! So I read it myself- in just a few sittings. I admit it was hard to put down.

It’s about a girl who goes to a small private high school- her family’s Catholic. Her best friends are opposites- Cat is a “bad girl” who likes wild parties, goes out drinking, and has a new boyfriend every other week (seems like). Laura, next door, is pretty uptight and always trying to do the right thing. Laura’s brother Adam has been longing to ask Mads (our protagonist) out, but it’s Cat who’s interested in Adam. Mads isn’t sure who she likes. She’s had her first kiss already- an innocent one- and quite a few other awkward ones since, and some for the wrong reasons altogether. Really her favorite things to do are go to baseball games with her father, and watch a crazy-sounding tv show with him. She doesn’t seem to have much interest in boys at all. Which starts some rumors going when some kids start to wonder if she has a crush on Cat. To make things even more complicated, Mads overhears her father talking to someone she doesn’t know, which raises suspicions that he’s having an affair- but the truth is even more difficult, and was such a stain on the family that nobody will talk about it. Mads and her friends do some sleuthing and finally tease out the truth, and cause some big confrontations. I have to say, this book doesn’t present things the easy way. It’s a strong story about the difficulties faced by gender queer folks who get rejected by their families, and even as Mads is trying to figure everything out, she gets lectures from some family members that go all the wrong way. Judgmental and full of false information. Mads gets the silent treatment from her own father for a long time, and the cold shoulder from her friends, but she makes new ones, grows closer to her mother, and finds some reconciliation all round in the end. I found some parts of this story that dove into past generations a bit tricky to follow (I like my storylines more linear) but it became clear enough. Too bad that Mads makes some rather poor decisions while she’s exploring who she is, but that only made this story feel all the more honest.

Borrowed from the public library. Out of my kid’s stack.

Rating: 4/5
314 pages, 2019

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Inside the Bizzare World of Nature's Most Dangerous Creatures

by Carl Zimmer

You’d think from the cover and subtitle that this is mostly about how creepy and icky and scary parasites are. And they are. But it’s also about how amazingly adaptive they can be, how influential on other animals (and plants) including humans, even how beautiful they are when viewed up close by someone appreciative (the author). Some parts of this book get really detailed about microbiology at the cellular level, which made me have to read every page a few times over because I just didn’t get it. Most is easily understandable and fascinating. Especially all the interconnections that I was never aware of. Parasites are complicated. Many of them still not very well understood, or even identified. Lots are very specific to their host, so if that host animal goes extinct, so do the numerous parasite species that live within it. I’d heard of the parasites that can control the actions of insects, or make rats unafraid of cats, in order to facilitate getting into their next host to continue their lifecycle. I had never before read about how parasites can make male crabs act like pregnant females, or do any other number of things that hold sway over the rise and fall of various animal populations. I loved the story about how an entomologist solved the problem of the cassava mealybug in Africa, that threatened to destroy the main food crop of 200 million people in the 1970’s. He thwarted that by introducing a very specific parasite, and the details of that were a great read. Unfortunately, there’s lots of other mentions on attempts to control pest species by introducing a parasite that went wrong. This book certainly made me feel creeped out and itchy at times, I’d have to put it aside for a bit. But it was also captivating. One I’ll probably want to read again someday.

Borrowed from the public library.

Rating: 4/5
306 pages, 2000

the Science and Secrets of Our Mysterious Feline Companions

by Thomas McNamee

I thought at first this book was going to be nothing special- personal stories about the author’s cat, alongside historical stuff about how they came to live alongside humans, how revered they were in Egypt, how they’ve retained their wildness in form and behavior, etc. But then just when I thought this was like any other books about cats, it started to get really interesting. There’s a section about scientific studies done on how early kittens should be socialized to human contact. Another about how specifically cats aim their vocal communication at humans- not each other. There’s a description of a group in Rome that feeds and provides for feral cats- including adopting them out- and all the controversy about supporting feral colonies this way: is it really helpful? also more on the debate if cats are responsible for reducing songbird numbers. More on why cat problem behaviors arise, with strong nods to the guy who does the My Cat From Hell show, and lots about how the comfort of a cat in his environment is so important to his mental health, and state of calmness. There’s much about what makes indoor life for a cat enjoyable and satisfying (high places, play that involves the whole hunting prey sequence, not getting scared or stressed by loud noises, punishments, etc) and then a very personal in-depth consideration of dealing with an older cat’s final illness and passing on. There’s grieving, and then the joy of a new kitten in the household again. So yes this book does have a lot of what my cat did stuff- and it’s delightful to read, but there’s also so much about recent or fairly unknown studies on cats, and what we can learn from them, and how that can make the lives of cats among humans better. He’s got an interesting opinion that most cats are standoffish and seem uncaring, because they lived with people who didn’t show them much affection! Also his idea that: if most indoor pet cats are sterilized, because that’s what good pet owners do nowadays, but the shelters and rescues keep getting filled by kittens born to the feral and semi-feral cats still roaming around- which are then fixed and hopefully find new homes- are we inadvertently selecting for cats that are less people-friendly? Because unless you’re on an island, there’s always wild fertile cats out there that will wander in and fill the gaps in feral colonies. I had never quite looked at it from that viewpoint before.

Borrowed from the public library.

Rating: 4/5
278 pages, 2017

the Groundbreaking Story of the World's First Talking Dog

by Christina Hunger

Familiar with my reading habits and you’ll know that I’ve long been fascinated by accounts of apes that use sign language or language devices, parrots that speak and show cognitive skills, and really any book about animal intelligence. Well, here we finally have a similar account about a dog. Anybody who’s lived with a dog (or cat) can tell you they understand at least some human language- certain words get dogs very excited, anticipating a walk or food, etc. My cat comes to his name. Chaser is famous for knowing over a thousand words assigned to individual toys and objects. Christina Hunger took this all one step further.

She works as a speech therapist, helping nonverbal children learn to use communication devices. She recognized in her dog the same behavioral milestones that young children achieve right before they being speaking. Her dog obviously knew the meaning of numerous words, so she decided to give the dog a way to say them. She fashioned a board with buttons that would verbalize pre-recorded words, starting with outside, eat, water and play. It took a while for the dog to catch on to what the buttons were for- but Christina patiently modeled using them, with the same methods she’d use for teaching a child. That is, she didn’t get the dog to use the word buttons for a reward, like a trick. She taught the dog to use the buttons in context, and the ability to communicate was its own intrinsic reward. And a powerful one. Stella began using the buttons regularly, and it became so invaluable- they could hear her pushing “outside” no matter what room in the house they were in- thus avoiding accidents- that when moving or traveling they had to find a way to bring the buttons along. (Stella and her family had got so used to her talking to express needs, that once in a hotel they missed her more subtle body language cues that she needed to go outside). Soon the author added more button words to Stella’s device, and then even more. When the book was published, she was using thirty words. Now- I visited her blog- her vocabulary includes over fifty words.

The dog surpassed all expectations in language use. She started applying words appropriately for situations they hadn’t been modeled for, demonstrating that she really knew what they meant. She put words together in novel combinations to express things- creating two, three- and four-word phrases. She not only used words to request food, water, going on a walk, visiting the beach, playing with someone etc- but also to comment on what was happening in the family at the moment (saying “water” when Christina watered her plants for example), to remark on things that had happened in the past- (“Jake bye” a few minutes after her husband left for work) or even to grasp what plans her family had for the immediate future (leaving on a trip, putting her with the dog-sitter, going to the beach at the end of the day instead of right now, etc). It’s pretty amazing to see the comprehension unfold and become actual two-way communication. No, the dog can’t discuss complex abstract ideas- but she makes her wishes known, expresses affection for her family and visitors, tells somebody when she needs help (retrieving a lost toy, opening the blinds to look out the window, even to learn using her new communication board when buttons were moved!) and even verbalizes displeasure for what somebody did or what’s going on.

The author carefully explains her methods, why they work better than training the dog with treat rewards, how to do this with your own dog, how to overcome setbacks or confusion, and more. The story isn’t just about Stella’s use of language, it’s also about the author’s work with children, several moves her family made, how Stella’s fame disrupted things when the story was first presented to media, and just about life with a dog in general. Before reading this book I’d seen a few clips online of Stella, other talking dogs, and one of a cat. I admit it did look a bit gimmicky and I was skeptical. But reading it all in context, it’s nothing short of amazing.

Borrowed from the public library.

Rating: 4/5
260 pages, 2021

by Rainbow Rowell

This was great. It didn’t feel like a four-hundred-page book, as I read it in just under two days- spent way too much time doing that, actually- this one was hard to put down! The words flow so easily, and you quickly get caught up in what’s happening with the characters. I thought I wouldn’t relate well because the main character, Cath, is deep into writing fanfiction, which is something I’ve never even read. She has thousands of followers online, but in real life, very few friends- being an introvert and struggling with anxiety. She writes fic about a Simon Snow fantasy series (also fictional, an echo of Harry Potter). When she was younger, her twin sister wrote alongside her, but now that they’re at college, they seem to be drifting apart. Cath feels rather bereft and at loose ends without her sister around to help her through things, but she gradually makes some friends, although that doesn’t always turn out for the best. A writing partner takes advantage of her to boost his grades. Her roommate’s boyfriend is around all the time which first makes her annoyed, and then nervous. Nobody really seems to get the Simon Snow thing- they think it’s weird, or childish- but she’d still much rather be writing in her room than going out to parties. However, there’s this one awesome scene where she runs into a girl in the library who recognizes a fanfic reference and turns out to be an avid follower of her online persona- they get into a whole conversation about it but she never lets on that she’s the writer!

So many things addressed in this story, I don’t know how to discuss them all. Finding yourself is the biggest one. For Cath, it’s finding herself as a writer. Especially when a professor accuses her of plagiarism when she turns in a short fanfic piece for an assignment. The awkwardness and tenderness of first love- I really did like this part of the story. The guy Cath ends up with – after a very long phase of just knowing each other casually- is so sweet and good. (Almost unbelievably good, but he does make a few blunders almost as if to prove he’s a real person and not some perfect prop of a nice guy). Then there’s family problems back home- Cath’s father is emotionally unstable, so there’s trips home for the weekend (just a few hours from campus) to make sure he’s okay, and sometimes respond to emergencies when the situation slides backwards. Throughout the course of the story more of the picture gradually unfolds, how Cath’s mother left them when she and her sister were in third grade, and the family is still recovering from that. I thought it was ironic and also amusing that while Cath at one point doesn’t want to return to school after the first semester, while her sister had the opposite issue- after getting deeper and deeper into drinking bouts at parties, she finally winds up in the hospital, and is forbidden to go back to college unless she meets some rules laid out by their father. (It’s kind of refreshing to read a novel about young adults where the family is not only present in the story, but also an active part of it!) While all this is going on, Cath is struggling to keep up with her coursework, because she’s set herself a deadline with her fanfic writing, and doesn’t want to disappoint all the followers waiting to read her next chapter online.

Whew. It was a lot. But so easy and fun to read. Lots of great lines, lots of funny moments. Some wonderful characters (and some annoying ones too, but they were just foils to show the better qualities of the ones you care about). Between some chapters are little excerpts which are supposed to be from either one of the Simon Snow books, or from Cath’s fanfic. They were intriguing and made me want to read that- and guess what, I just might, because I found out afterwards that the author really did write three novels of the Simon Snow series. How great is that. I’m eager to read those, even though there’s vampires (not usually my thing).

Some other readers complained about how many loose ends were left at the end of the story, that it wrapped up a bit too quickly. I wouldn’t have minded reading another hundred pages to get more conclusion, but on the other hand, most of those points didn’t really bother me. I could see the direction things were going in, and I’d hope they continued on a steady course- Cath’s dad getting over a setback with his mental illness, her sister heading off alcoholism, even the boyfriend perhaps getting help with his learning disability (it was obvious he’d learned to cope, but no indication if he’d ever sought or received professional help for it). I admit there’s one thing that did disappoint me with this book: there’s no sex. The characters talk plenty about sex, and it’s obvious some of them are doing it, but there’s not one actual scene. There’s a lot of buildup to it, though, and then plenty of hints that it happened- but somehow I was expecting that to be on the page, handled without too many blunt details, of course (it’s what I’d expect as this novel is so clean in that regard). I can’t believe I was actually disappointed not to have that scene. I’ve never had that response to a book before- usually I’m relieved when those things are left out! And what’s funny is that from the way the characters talk, Cath herself writes steamy scenes into her fanfic. But the author didn’t put a scene for her in this book.

Borrowed from the public library.

Rating: 4/5
438 pages, 2013

by Robin Sloan

If I had known what this book was like going into it, I probably wouldn’t have read, ha. So I’m glad I knew so little, because I really enjoyed it! Even though it’s about a conspiracy, a secret society, a giant puzzle to be solved by breaking a hidden code. It’s funny and quirky and weird, but also gets a tad nostalgic and tongue-in-cheek at the end. I loved it that the solution to the puzzle was something so simple and overlooked because everyone was expecting something far more complicated. I laughed out loud at how everything finally connected in the end. And of course I loved all the bookish references, especially (oddly enough) to a fictional fantasy series (which reminded me of the fictional series everyone loved in the Magicians books).

It starts out being about a guy in San Francisco out of a job, who picks up a night shift at a small bookstore. Almost immediately he notices something odd about this bookstore: most of the (very few) patrons don’t actually buy books. They borrow hefty tomes written in some kind of code, accessible only because they have membership in some private group. Our protagonist’s employer warns him to never look in the coded books in the back part of the store, or he’ll be fired instantly. But of course he is curious and when a friend eggs him on, he takes a look. And gets sucked into attempting to break the code. Which actually looks possible, because he doesn’t just throw old decrypting methods at the problem, but amasses all the scary powers of modern technology and computer brains, to crack the puzzle in just the blink of an eye (compared to the decades the secret club has been working on it). And what he finds- on practically the very last page- is a total surprise, which really made me laugh. All those people worked up over the wrong thing!

I really liked how this book meshed old knowledge and craftsmanship ways of doing things, with the blazingly fast and frighteningly powerful new powers of programming and crowdsourcing. It shows the best of both worlds, and also -perhaps- how they could mesh into something even better. There’s so much love of knowledge and things bookish in here- from how things are organized, to the vast storage spaces of museum collections, to the beauty of typefaces and the mastery of writing code. Not to mention all the odd people, and the coming together of great minds, and friends. It was great, and it all went by in a flash. There’s a prequel too, which piques my interest, though my library doesn’t have a copy of that, so I’ll have to look for it elsewhere. And of course, I loved the end message, that things written in books which are treasured and handed down from one generation to the next, are the real immortality.

Oh, also- the Google parts were weird. And I thought: maybe that’s just how the Google workplace is. But I gather from some other reviewers that it’s decidedly not. Doesn’t bother me, but it might bother people in the know.

Borrowed from the public library.

Rating: 4/5
288 pages, 2012

Compulsive Hoarding and the Meaning of Things

by Randy O. Frost and Gail Steketee

When the co-authors wrote this book just over a decade ago, compulsive hoarding was little known and even less studied. They set out to learn more about why people become hoarders, what their feelings and thoughts about their belongings are, maybe how they got that way (many already had symptoms in childhood), how it affects family members, and finally what might assist them to clear out their clutter and overcome their compulsions. Much easier said than done. The authors were surprised at the overwhelming response when they sought subjects for their study- turns out hoarding isn’t as rare as they’d thought. Lots of people have difficulty letting go of cherished items, controlling desires to buy items they don’t really need, or saving junk that just might come be useful someday. The book delves into the nuances and reasons behind these problems and more. Problem being when the items collected or saved literally fill the living space- multiple cases they discuss had hoarders who simply moved into a new residence when their current one became unlivable! Others lost family members who became frustrated with the situation and left, or actually had their piles of stuff threaten their healthy and safety. Many times city officials had to get involved because of the physical safety hazard, but as the authors point out more than once, forced cleanouts do little to actually solve the problem, as hoarders will quickly fill their home again.

It was sometimes distressing and unsettling to read the description of some homes they visited, and I honestly felt bad for the people struggling with hoarding to such a degree. Some of them desperately wanted help for what they couldn’t seem to control, others denied that anything was a problem! Their reasons for hanging onto or collecting stuff were so varied and different than what I had assumed might be. Much of it appears to be pathological in nature- so I’d hope that now, so many years later, progress has been made in treatment using medications as well as the therapy, assisted organization and cleanout, and so on. I keep turning my mind back to the reasons that people became hoarders: because they felt guilty wasting anything (so couldn’t throw anything away), because they felt an intimate connection to each object, because they felt the object held their memories- literally were afraid of forgetting things the items represented if they were discarded, because they felt important or loved when taking in animals (the animal hoarding chapter was hard to read, but brief), because they saw endless opportunities or knowledge that things held (think stashes of years and years’ worth of newspapers, magazines, etc). It’s kind of scary to read all this and recognize little bits of yourself or your family members in the behavior and rationale of hoarders. At what point does my personal library (currently 1,873 books) or puzzle collection (157) become too much? I chuckled when the authors mentioned that one hoarder had hundreds of books in his house – well, I actually have a few thousand! I start to feel it’s getting overwhelming when they stack up on the floor because I’m out of shelf space . . . and then I just want to build more shelves. But really I need to whittle down the TBR pile- and this book really gives me the impulse to do so, and to seriously clean my house, and to clear out stuff the kids don’t use anymore, and just keep going . . .

Borrowed from the public library.

Rating: 4/5
290 pages, 2010

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